Candy has now been with us for three days and I would say she has settled in very well.
Leaving her mother and life as she knew it for a two and a half hour car journey from Birmingham to London must have been quite traumatic for her: there was a lot of wriggling and struggling on my lap at the start of the journey until we moved on to the back seat, more out of the sun. Towards home she started chewing on a toy which I thought was a good sign.
As soon as we were home we took her into the garden, which I immediately realised was not puppy proof – even though the foxes have not been able to get in for some time. Leaves, weeds, plants and snails are far too tempting for little puppies and there is a hedge that she can get under, not to mention various shrubs. Something tells me the garden may suffer for a while.
The next new experience was hearing the piano – one that she needed to get used to fairly quickly. This was better than expected, with Candy going straight under the piano stool and falling asleep. She will even stay in the kitchen when she hears me practising now. The ‘gate’ that was supposed to keep her in the kitchen was an easy squeeze through , so that had to be reinforced with a piece of wood, and there had to be an early introduction to the collar and lead for garden visits.
There’s such a lot to learn for a little puppy of just over 9 weeks old – even before we start attending puppy school! I’m not sure that she has really understood why I keep taking her out in the garden, on a lead, unless it’s to tell her not to eat the leaves, weeds and plants; she likes to tug on the lead and run about madly within its confines and I suppose that is a distraction from the toilet training. Bit of a breakthrough today, however – although she has been very good at using the newspaper on the floor of the downstairs loo, often just after I have brought her in from garden perambulations. The Perfect Puppy (Gwen Bailey) recommends taking the puppy into the garden after waking up, playing, any excitement, eating and at least once an hour through the day.
It’s been a big learning curve for me: for one thing, I’m turning into an anxious and neurotic mother! She ate a wasp in the garden on Sunday and I spent the rest of the day worrying about it; she started having hiccups later that day and I turned them into convulsions – how would she survive them? She usually reassures me by deciding to play tug of war with one of her toys! I felt more confident when I had booked her with the vet for her second vaccination, then I read on the blog about lungworm and was convinced she had picked that up from a snail in the garden. Hypochondria by proxy?
The Perfect Puppy stresses the importance of socialization for new puppies and we’re doing quite well introducing her to lots of new humans. Two friends came especially to see her on Monday and he took lots of photographs – until she started growling at the flash. These supermodels have their limits. She has met several children already as my pupils have been arriving as usual for their lessons, and the siblings who are waiting in the kitchen get to stroke her and play with her.
She’s learnt already that she is not supposed to jump up at the gate; if she does I ignore her. It is very sweet to see her sitting behind it waiting patiently for me to go in to her. We’re not managing quite so well with stopping the play biting, as the scars on my hands testify – and she’s a little too fond of grabbing my hair as well!
We go to puppy school on Saturday – an introductory two hour class without her! I booked a puppy sitter. I’ve just put her to bed, with a hot water bottle; she must be getting used to her new life as I’m not hearing any crying or complaining! She is absolutely gorgeous and funny and loving and has changed our lives completely!

